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Many of you know how the Todd Family feels about journeys. We try to keep an eternal destination always in view, while focusing on finding joy in the way we choose to get there. We are so grateful for the knowledge we have about where we want to ultimately be... in the presence of a loving Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ, who made it possible for us to achieve that destination. We have been sent to this earth to see if we can reach our potential, becoming all that Heavenly Father wants us to be. Sometimes the journey back to our Heavenly home takes us through wide, gentle paths and sometimes the road is treacherous and unknown. Regardless, we feel that with every step we take, we should be looking for the beauty around us... learning from our fellow sojourners and relying on the maps that were provided to us to get through. Sometimes it is easy to happily skip along, but often we struggle, wondering if we will make it, and recognizing in the end that we can do hard things that we would have not previously thought possible. These are often the stretches of road that bring the most joy... the difficult ones. We have recently found ourselves on “a road less traveled” and, since we can’t turn around, we have decided to find joy in the opportunity to go there... to become better for having trod this new path. We hope that none of you will have to take this route, and can instead experience the vistas through us as you follow this blog. Here we go... Remember to enjoy the journey!
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Mile Marker #1
We were in the oncology clinic for 4 hours this morning. It will normally only take 2-3 hours, every other week. The nurse was able to draw blood (to establish a baseline with his blood counts) through the port in his chest and then pumped the chemicals in the same way. After the Oxaliplatin dripped in, they connected a little bottle with Fluorouracil in it, which he can discreetly carry around with him for the next 48 hours (It is currently in a "fanny pack" which is not necessarily the fashion statement he was hoping for, but he'll find a more stylish method, I'm sure:)). We were shown how to disconnect everything at the appropriate time, how to flush out the port, and how to properly dispose of everything when he is done with it. His next appointment will be on March 15th.
Derek has already experienced some random side effects, but they told us what to expect, and so far nothing has been too major. Many people have said that when this second medication stops pumping into his veins, he will feel the most affected by the chemo for a day or two. They sent him home with some strong anti-nausea medicine and told him he should not feel sick, just tired. It will be good to see how his body responds to it and what days are the worst so he will know what day to schedule the chemo, once he goes back to work. He is making a good effort to drink a lot of water, eat healthy foods, and get regular exercise. We have established a "walk the dad" schedule so that he will feel motivated to walk for a bit each day. I get the morning walks and each kid will take an evening:) We've heard that these things will have a positive impact on his ability to get through the chemotherapy. We'll do whatever we can to help. Derek says his favorite advice he has been given by medical professionals is to "listen to your body and do whatever you need to do to make it feel better.":) He doesn't naturally cater to himself much, but maybe this year he'll actually slow down enough to reach his goal of reading a book for pleasure! He's half way through an inspirational autobiography and I am confident he will finish it:) As always, thank you for your continued prayers for our family. We are doing well.
I have been thinking of you guys today. Too bad you couldn't have started chemo yesterday so that you could only have that anniversary every leap year. :) Thanks for the update. Praying that the only side effects are good ones!
ReplyDeleteSo true about Leap Day... How did we miss out on that!!:) Thanks for keeping tabs on us. We hope to meet up in Utah soon!!
DeleteThanks for this post! I hate to call and bug, but I have been wondering all day how it all went. You guys are amazing! The "walk the Dad" schedule sounds like an awesome idea. Good bonding will come from it as well. Good one on one dad time is a must for going through all this I am sure. Love you ! And good luck!!! Always praying...
ReplyDeleteYou all have such creative ideas -- walk with Dad is a great one. I would walk with you if I were closer! Glad to hear you are on your way thru the healing process and are doing good with it. A positive attitude will see you a long way on this journey. Hi and love to all of you from all of us. Aunt Jane
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