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Many of you know how the Todd Family feels about journeys. We try to keep an eternal destination always in view, while focusing on finding joy in the way we choose to get there. We are so grateful for the knowledge we have about where we want to ultimately be... in the presence of a loving Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ, who made it possible for us to achieve that destination. We have been sent to this earth to see if we can reach our potential, becoming all that Heavenly Father wants us to be. Sometimes the journey back to our Heavenly home takes us through wide, gentle paths and sometimes the road is treacherous and unknown. Regardless, we feel that with every step we take, we should be looking for the beauty around us... learning from our fellow sojourners and relying on the maps that were provided to us to get through. Sometimes it is easy to happily skip along, but often we struggle, wondering if we will make it, and recognizing in the end that we can do hard things that we would have not previously thought possible. These are often the stretches of road that bring the most joy... the difficult ones. We have recently found ourselves on “a road less traveled” and, since we can’t turn around, we have decided to find joy in the opportunity to go there... to become better for having trod this new path. We hope that none of you will have to take this route, and can instead experience the vistas through us as you follow this blog. Here we go... Remember to enjoy the journey!
Monday, February 27, 2012
Paving the Way
Wednesday our house was officially listed. I will admit to feeling a bit sad when it popped up on realtor.com, but it is a relief to finally have it ready to be sold. Hopefully it will sell in a timely manner and for buckets full of money (ha, ha... you've got to love trying to sell a home when it isn't possible to recover your full investment!). Thursday morning we farmed out all the kids to stay with friends and we left for Utah. We arrived in time to meet with our future employer and sign a contract, get set up with IT stuff, talk about health insurance, etc. Everyone was very nice and welcoming... it was exciting to have the job become more of a reality:) We were happy to find that the oncologists at the Huntsman Cancer Center extension in the neighboring city of American Fork were covered by the new insurance company and that his benefits will start on Day 1 of his employment... more miracles, in our opinion!
We met with school counselors at the Junior High and High School and felt good about enrolling our kids there. It is a horrible time, in many ways, to try to transition them, but we can see many benefits to it and it looks like the logistics of transferring schools will work out fairly smoothly. I think the kids will be surprised at how much they like their new schools... even if their new school color is purple!:) We spent two days looking at houses that didn't seem to be a good fit for our family. It is hard to leave a house that has been so ideal, but we did find one that we like. We'll just have to work out the details of the timing and financing and pray that everything falls into place perfectly... is that too much to ask?:) We'll be back in Colorado soon and are excited to see our kids.
Derek will receive his first chemotherapy treatment on Thursday. We're hopeful that all will go well with that and that Derek will still have the energy required to move forward with all that is coming. It has been wonderful to visit with our Utah family and we have felt so loved and cared for by friends and family everywhere. Thanks for praying us through this! We feel so certain that Heavenly Father has it all figured out, can see what we cannot, and will help all the pieces to fit together as they should. We know we're not the only people trying to get through hard things and we pray for each of you and whatever struggles you are also facing.
That's lots of good news with insurance, etc. I hope you will have a place to move to where you'll be happy. Six bedrooms? :)
ReplyDeleteYou are both amazing! Things seem to be going remarkably well. That is not ignoring all the trauma and angst of the move and the reality of ports and treatments, but there is a lot of grace and guidance present here also. You deserve each and every break! A cold??? Now that is just not right! Glad you are feeling better! I know the kids are trying their best and it sounds like they are Going to adjust fine. Patience and wonderful parents and good solid background will out! Hey, each and every day, feel loving arms surrounding you and know you are cared about and loved in more ways than you can imagine. Aunt Jane and all the family contingent far and wide.
ReplyDeleteSo happy to hear that the trip was successful! Also happy to hear that Derek was feeling better after the port was put in. Josh has asked about you guys. He is living there in Lehi, maybe you'll bump into him. :)
ReplyDeleteSounds like things are really falling into place to make things happen! Hopefully the house and timing will work out too. We appreciate you taking the time to share with us your journey and to allow us to help any way we can even though your lives are busy right now. You guys are in our thoughts and prayers every day! We hope the house sells quickly and the kids adjust to their new schools and feel welcomed and accepted.
ReplyDeleteLove, The Penners!